What Is It With Some Black Guys and Constantly Chatting Up Woman
Before I get into my latest viewpoint on life, let me just say I’m not claiming that every black guy fits the bill as to what I’m going to discuss, just a noticeable percentage! And I’m sure there are a guys out there of all races that conduct themselves in the manner, which I’m going to deliberate.
I have came to the conclusion that I’m going to share with the world, from personal observations and from talking to Afro/Caribbean friends, as well as various former black girlfriends.
What is it with some black guys and constantly chatting up woman, and they are not just chatting them up because they are lonely and they are looking for a friend. Make no mistake about it, they want to f**k them. This isn’t just something that young black guys do, it transcends all ages groups and it happens very frequently in London.
I have came across so many black girls of both Caribbean and African decent that have stopped, believe it or not dating black guys! Because they quite simply can’t take the cheating, lies and constant womanising of guys from there own cultures anymore. Which is a good thing for guys like me that prefer black woman.
A girl I use to know when I first moved to London, of African decent, was in a relationship with a guy from Kenya. Now this guys idea of the ideal relationship was to covertly follow this girl wherever she went, he would follow her to work, follow her home from work. If she was seen walking to the bus stop with a group of co-workers, she was messing around. But do you know something, the relationship ended, when the girl found a pair of another girl’s panties in her bed! I have heard similar stories countless times concerning Afro/Caribbean guys.
If there was one thing I really about hated about when I was living on the Caribbean Island of Barbados, it was the unbelievable ignorance of some of the guys towards woman. And I mean they are so dumb, that they would think it was acceptable and normal behaviour to shout out at your wife, as you were walking down the road, “Hey baby, why don’t you come and join me”. Or they would be whistling at her as you walked past with her. Or maybe they were gay and liked me?
I will always remember this desperate looking 40 something year old Bajan in the local supermarket, a few weeks before I came back to the UK. It puts a whole new meaning to shopping, this clown never went into to shop for food, he went into chat up woman. He stood at the end of an isle and every time a woman walked past him he would give her the same high quality opening chat up line, “Hey Baby, your looking hot today”. I’m not joking!
It wouldn’t matter if they were young, old, fat, thin, ugly, or beautiful, in fact he even made an attempt at a transsexual! I don’t know if this guy was just a desperado or had some kind of sickness, but he sure was a loser. I remember one girl that was being polite and listend to him for a minute, as soon as she walked round the corner, she said to her friend, ” that guys a fu**ing idiot”.
What I have heard said from African girls in the past, is that some guys from certain African countries think it is okay to have lots of girlfriends, because back home they can have numerous wife’s. But most of these guys can’t handle and look after the one girlfriend properly, let alone numerous ones.
I had to constrain my laugher a few days ago, when I was shopping in Sainsbury’s and witnessed the African security guards, lame attempt at chatting up a real Caribbean beauty. This girl was absolutely stunning and had a body sent from heaven. If the security guard had been alert, which he clearly wasn’t. He would have noticed that Caribbean beauty was with a guy that looked more scary and was twice the size of Mike Tyson.
Monster guy, was talking to someone a few meters away from his Caribbean beauty, who was now taking to a friend on her mobile. When security guard appears, he starts patting her daughter on her head and then tries’s to chat her up, as she talks on the phone. The girl blatantly ignores the security guard, who then walks away and comes back a minute later and has another go.
Monster guy sees this and comes over and asks the security guy, if he can help him. Security guy has some sense after all, and is out of there like a bat out of hell. I almost couldn’t stop laughing.
I was at a Jamaican wedding a few months ago, and I have never been to any event like this in my life, where there were so many single woman. It was crazy, I would hazard a guess and say that 75% of the woman were without guys. I asked the girl I was with, how come it was like this. She said, that it was because some of them were single because they had got fed up with the cheating and lying, and that some had men, but it was the weekend and they probably couldn’t escape their wife’s, partners or girlfriends to come to the wedding!
I just don’t get it, why so many black guys think it is a cool thing to cheat, lie and make fools of their wife’ or girlfriends, by running around with countless other girls. It is a crazy situation, because I know from previous experience that if you treat a black girl right and are good to her, you wont need to look elsewhere for bedroom activities, because you will get more than you can ever handle…………
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London City Arpt, UNITED KINGDOM
It would be racial to agree with you, that I have observed the same behavior on the streets of Chicago. This behavior of “talking up Woman” is universal, some men have the “gift to gab” while others, like myself, had a hard time “breaking the ice” to at least get introduced, let alone have the ability to keep her interest. I would submit this behavior is rooted in these men’s childhood and family environment during their upbrining which instills the basis for this morality. The lack of a positive father figure who is faithful to his wife (and vice versa) would be the mythical norm to measure each man’s accountable faithfulness to their provider of their nookie. See George Carlin’s condensed version of the Ten Commandments. If sex comes easily and cheaply to these men, then like some super hero power, it has the ability to corrupt them absolutely, to their detriment. You can’t save them all from their own ill fated relationships with Women who are duped into an encounter with them. Just hope they are smart enough wear condoms.
I don’t know how I stumbled on your blog, but boy, are you biased!! It got nothing to do with black pink, red or yellow. I have seen many white, Arab, and Asian males with similar and often more irritating behavior. Get serious.
I’m not biased and I didn,t say it was only black guys that behaved in this manner, but in my experience black guys are the worst offenders, it is just the way it is. FACT!
Just 20 minutes ago I was walking down the street and a black guy is stimulating hard fast sex while standing behind a girl 30 years younger than him, whats that all about?
I think they should learn about it. Don’t they know that to honestly love your partner makes a happy life?
i think it isn’t necessaryly to do with colour of the skin, but has to do with the social economic ladder.
Geerally, most womenziers are from poorer background. They tend to have no good role models, etc.
Unfortunitely most black people fall in this catergory.
i.e you don’t see a college educated black accountant doing those things.
On the other hand, you see so many “chavs” doing those things you mention, hence shows like jeremy Kyle and Trisha….
Well these are some interesting viewpoints. I will venture to say that from vast experience, it isn’t only black men that have this tendency, I think your perspective is slightly off balance. Yes, there are cultural factors that promote womanizing in Caribbean and African cultures and it has nothing to do with lack of father figures or economics. Bajan men are actually not the worst examples of this but you only have that experience to draw from. As a black woman, I can tell you that Italian, Latino, French and Greek men can be equally as bad. In London, you don’t have the chance to see this as much but believe me, black men are not the main culprits with this problem.
The only hypocrite is yourself. I have the right to comment because of something known as freedom of speech. And I will continue to do so, on any issue that requires my input.
I get sick of the attitude of some of black guys, that have no respect for woman. My African Princess has chosen to date a white guy not because of the colour of my skin, but for who I am. We are now living in the 21st century where for many people skin colour isn’t an issue. If we like someone we like them and it doesn’t matter a fuck what the colour of there skin is.
I applaud those black woman, or woman of any colour for that matter who have the intelligence and foresight to get involved in a relationship with who the want too, not who society tells them too. I guess that’s why in the coolest and most cosmopolitan city in the world, there are thousands of mixed relationships.
For the record I lived in a predominantly black country for a while, Barbados and most black people on that Island have a extreme disliking of Africans, which I found strange and kind of interesting. And similarly I have came across plenty of Africans in London that dislike Caribbean Blacks. I have also met plenty of Africans that have a severe distrust of people from other African countries. It seems that at times it’s a mixed up world.
I find it funny how many black guys in London and it was the same in Barbados, think that white guys shouldn’t be going out with black woman. But they think it is okay for themselves to go out with multiple woman and chat up everything that moves. They don’t realise they have a lack of respect for woman and themselves. Such men whether they are black or white, need to get the poison out of their veins and start realising that being in a relationship involves more than sticking your dick in a pussy.
I have traced my own families history and believe it or not I actually have two people in my family tree that were sent to the West Indies as slaves to work as forced labour on the plantations. Thousands of Scots were sent all over the world as slaves, including men, woman and children due to political, religious or for the greed of money.
I suppose the difference is I live in the 21st century and don’t use it as a stick for my own failures and lack of successes that I may or may not have in life. Give me a break and stopping talking crap about post traumatic syndrome, you use such ridiculous terms because it is convenient.
You are the biggest hypocrite and worst type of person of all….and you do not even realise it….!
yay!!! i totally agree with this guy, that is the reason why i have stopped dating black guys and now i date white guys. they treat women so much better. and i have never been happier.
but then again i must point out that, i only date white en of a certain stature because, they have manners and are educated enough to not do the same things a the black guys.
dating a lower class white guy is probably the same as dating a black guy, it really does depend on class.
the majority of well educated black guys go for white ladies, so really what is left is the ‘trash’ and if they are any good ones left, they are such a rarity, so the odds are much better if you’re with a white guy to find a good one. there’s only so much heart ache a woman can take. even a strong black female.
X I refuse publish your latest comments, why because I find you a bore. Your body and mind is filled with anti white poison. You are one of the biggest and most vile racists that I have ever came across in my life.
If you had been born white you would be a member of the KKK or the BNP. Some of us live in a world where the colour of someone’s skin, the religion they practise or the country they were born in doesn’t make a blind bit of difference.
I know your type, Obama because he is mixed race, he will never be black enough for the likes of you. The fact he was born from the womb of white woman, will never sit well for racists like you.
There is no such thing as brotherly or sisterly love between any races, colours of people or religions in the world. It just doesn’t exist. It has never existed.
You obviously don’t get out of your inner city American ghetto too often. In the UK you will very rarely get a lady of Caribbean or African decent going out with her so called brother from a different continent. It just doesn’t happen. Black guys will however try to go out with anything that moves, the more the merrier, but the sad thing is most of them cant even handle one woman.
I’m sitting talking to my girl who was born and bred in Botswana who was given one piece of advice form her parents all those years ago before she came to London, do not have anything to do with Nigerians, they are all crooks, they cant be trusted. I have a friend from Uganda who’s sister was hacked to death by a fellow so called black brother because her nose was the wrong shape. Every week in London some black youth is shooting his black brother over drugs or because he stepped on his toes. So give your righteous my brothers speech a break.
X your banned….when’s the last time you visited Africa? I have lived in the Caribbean on an island that was 95% black and know what the truth is!
Just to put your mind at ease, my girl was brought up in a village in Botswana where she lived for 30 something years, and believe it or not there wasn’t one single white person for miles around. But I would hazard a guess as to that you wouldn’t have a clue as to what village life is like in any African country let alone Botswana.
Your judgement has been clouded by all those crazy, racist white hating books I think you love to read.
As I said hate exists everywhere. I can imagine your favourite writers fail to mention that blacks were more than willing to sell there so called brothers and sisters into slavery for the white mans pieces of gold. For the record I personally feel that slavery and the brutality of it all should never be forgotten, but that it shouldn’t be used as a stick with, which to beat up the white race for ever more.
What I find truly shocking and disturbing is that slavery very much still exists not only in certain African countries but in many third world countries around the world. It is a brutal world at times and there seems to be no end in sight. Take a look at those Nike’s you are quite happy to wear that are made by a 11 year old child in some sweat shop in the Far East who is getting paid $1 a day. Whilst they pay millions of dollars in endorsements to fucking superstars that are never quite rich enough.
As long as people like you allow themselves to be imprisoned by what humanity has done to people over the centuries, you will never move forward. Do something to help your brothers and sisters in oppressed African countries who deserve a life, without having to suffer the daily threat of violence or death from their fellow African brothers and sisters.
Did you know that the first slaves on Barbados were actually white, yes I said white Scottish, Irish and even English people, who were shipped to the West Indies by Cromwell during the 17th century civil war. A story, which I feel needs to be given the publicity it deserves. I’m going to do an article on the Scottish Sugar Slaves in the near future, I’m sure you will love it. They were treated as poorly as the Africans that came after them and were equally hated and despised by the plantations owners and the black slaves.
http://www.liveleak.com/view?i=8da_1247177790
X, we are all entitled to our opinion and I chose to voice my freedom of choice by not publishing your racist comments.
The Scottish slaves in Barbados for the record were chained in the same chains as the Africans, whipped with the same whips as the Africans and lived in the same poverty stricken conditions as the Africans, the only difference was the Scots couldn’t handle the hot weather conditions as well as the Africans and died a lot quicker. I think you need to go and read some history books Slavery was LEGAL in countless countires all over the world.
The bottom line is I am more up to date with black culture in the UK and Barbados than you ever will be. So I can and will voice my opinion any god dam time I like. I will discuss any issue I want regarding black, white or any race or religion of people that I wish too. I live in the UK and we are allowed freedom of speech. Look it up on Google so you know what freedom of speech means.
I know your real problem and that is, you know I’m right. I know I’m right and I have had countless black people telling that I’m right. I wish I wasn’t right, but I was only addressing a part of black culture that is no secret, so I don’t know what your problem is?
The End….!
Is this your great multi-cultural society???
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1233878/Heartbroken-British-wife-live-apart-Chilean-husband-Government-forced-marriage-rules.html?ITO=1490&referrer=yahoo
Just because your white and dont facediscrimination that other foreigners do, you cant even begin to contemplate the negativity other ethnics go through on a daily basis, so dont right about topics you will never fully understand…
X you will be glad to know that I have finally decided to publish one of your comments.
I have read this article and what’s their hurry to get married. I have the answer, you have a dirt poor peasant from Chile, that’s what. All he wants is a British passport and a piece of the good life in the UK, which he will never get in Chile. If they are so in love, why doesn’t she go and live with him in Chile and find a new career over there. But I cant imagine anybody wanting to go and live there. They don’t give you benefits, tax credits, child benefit, free doctors and much much more that is available in the UK.
In a couple of years time, neither of them will even remember the other ones name. For once the courts have got it right in Britain. You have to earn the right to come and live in Britain. There are too many fake marriages happening in the UK and this one smells like one to me. He isn’t even smiling in his wedding photo, just a smug look of I have finally got the right to stay in the UK permanently.
I cant just jump on a plane and go live in Australia, American, Canada, Africa, China etc each country has its own laws and it is about time people were made to respect the laws of this country.
The biggest problem at the moment in the UK is that it has become like the promised land for all the poor people from all over the world. The streets are paved with gold. Everyone wants a piece of what my parents, their parents before them and every generation of British Citizen has worked and fought for in the past to achieve.
It isn’t about racism it is all about respecting and upholding the laws of the UK. But people like you love to use your trump card of racism, whenever it suits you. You haven’t got a dam god clue.
Isn’t it interesting to see that Tiger Woods one of the most prominent black sportsman in the world, living up to my article. He doesn’t just break his marriage vows with one woman, it is at least 8 and counting. I rest my case!
Much of what u say is true. I’m a black man, cheating on bitches is just the way it is and always will be. I have too much love to give to just one bitch.
Finally a honest black man and his view point on woman and love. I maybe don’t agree with your lifestyle, but at least you are HONEST.
Tiger Woods would be proud of you….!