Dating In The 21st Century It’s Dam Gone Crazy

I wish someone could explain to me why I see so many old guys and by that I mean, men that are 50 or 60 something walking around with a 20 something year old Thai, Filipino, Russian, African or Eastern European girls. I guess it must be something about girls from certain countries preferring old men.

A few years back you would have very occasionally seen an old wrinkly with a much younger lady, but nowadays it is something I see numerous times every day in London and it was the same back home in Aberdeen. You can tell by looking at them it is relationship made in heaven and that it is true love, HONEST!

I guess a lot it has to do with the internet and woman that are desperate to leave their homeland for a better and more prosperous life. I suppose you get some woman that study to better themselves and end up coming to live in another country on their own terms. Then you get woman that have only one thing and that is their looks and all they have to do is hook their fish, which is old Mr Lonely guy.

Lets face it, there is no way on this planet that Mr 63 year old, is going to find a beautiful 23 year old girl in the UK, USA or any affluent country, unless he just happens to be extremely rich. That is a fact.

We live in the 21st century and I can imagine that most people that have been single in recent years and even many that are still in relationships, have tried their hand at internet dating. I’m not afraid to be honest and say yes I have indulged in some internet dating, when I was single and even when I was not so single, I may add this was many years ago.

I use to find it funny meeting certain woman from certain countries online, that would say they loved you and would you send them some money after 10 minutes of talking to them. Of course she does. I know it is the 21st century and I’m a reasonable good looking and intelligent guy, but fucking heck that’s quick. I wonder how many guys they are truly, madly and deeply in love with every single day, a lot I guess.

I personally find it a crazy world when people are talking to someone five thousand miles away and they really think it is going to work out and that it is real love. I will tell you the scenario, if by a minor miracle,  Mr Lonely does eventually travel to the Philippines or Ghana or where ever it is, to meet the girl and she is real and not part of a team of scammers. She is going to like him, that is a fact, even if the guy is the ugliest , dumbest, smelliest and most repulsive guy in the world. You are the meal ticket, that is the bottom line.

Anybody that has met people online, will be aware that unless you are real desperate and willing to take the first person that comes your way, it is difficult to make a real connection with someone you have met off a chat room or dating site. No mater how many pictures, emails or occasions that you have talked to them on the phone. Meeting someone for real is totally different to meeting them in the virtual world.

Lets face facts, what granddad is going to be able to keep up with a young lady, both physically and socially. I know those guys must be popping Viagra’s like they are sweeties. I knew a few guys back home in Aberdeen, that would be helping out on the sexual side of the relationship, by that I mean, when the old husband was on the oilrig, they would be going round to and visiting the young Russian or Slovakain and they weren’t playing scrabble. I guess real love has its down side!

In fact I once knew a Russian girl, when I lived in Aberdeen, that once told me when she was back home and it was an oil city, so there was of course lots of foreign men. She had not 1 or 2 or 3 boyfriends but 6 all at the same time from all around the world. She was just waiting for the best offer, which came from Mr 30 years older than her. She was dreading the day when he retired and would be home from the rigs full time. It was true love, honest.

I also once new a girl that was or should I say thought she was in love with a Nigerian guy who lived in Lagos, who eventually admitted he was a scammer, but that he really did love her. You guessed it she believed him and that true love would prevail after all. But would she please send him some money for his visa and air ticket and mobile phone, as well as for some food etc etc.

I remember when I was a wage slave a number of years ago and one of my work colleagues who was known simple as the Count as in Count Dracula. He was for ever travelling hundreds of miles to meet woman he had met online and it would always end in disaster. Lets just say he wasn’t a bonny looking loon, and the picture he use to send them was kind of flattering to say the least. Even the foreign ladies would have knocked this guy back. That is the pearls of Internet dating, you never know what your gonna get until you meet them face to face.

I don’t have a problem with guys buying mail order brides or even meeting woman from foreign lands, it is just the ridiculous age gaps and it looks so perverted  and you just know in many cases that  it is going to end in disaster. I cant understand why they cant just find someone nearer their own  age and just as ugly as they are. There must be ugly older woman in the Philippines, Russia, Ghana etc looking for Mr Right.

Dating in the 21st century sure is a crazy game and one thing that is for sure, is that there is a sucker born every minute of the day.

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